No-Buy July…Will It Fly?

Posted on: Thursday, July 10th, 2025
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IMG_3578.jpegThis poor little bird is both bored and scared. It just got kicked out of the nest and doesn’t yet have the wings or funds to go hang out at the mall with the other fledglings.

Back in the day, my house had 4 residents and one cat. All of them needed stuff and ergo shopped incessantly. Except the cat, although even she went through her share of toys and food and litter. Speaking of, sometimes the Amazon packaging piled up until it became a part-time job just disposing of it all.

Cue the music for No-Buy July. It’s a thing, although I suspect that, like church, participation is rare…and fading. Nonetheless, the idea stands strong—and gets some attention, including an empowering column by WashPost money writer Michelle Singletary who reminds us of some of the spending traps we can all fall into when seeking that short but mighty high that happens when scoring something seemingly special.

  • Beware of “Sale” Merch

Is anything NOT on sale anymore? At least when you leave the supermarket and enter the boutique or department store? Case in point: I recently bought a dapper seersucker jacket that I simply could NOT live without. I’m sure part of the allure (in addition to its undeniable coolness) was that it was buried on a CLEARANCE rack. At 50% off. Funny, though (or not), the price was higher than seemed appropriate.

But upon a bit of embarrassing reflection, I’ll admit and confess: Had the thing been priced the same but without the compelling discount and in its normal department, I would have likely fondled, pondered, and passed. Instead, I fell for the old “spend to save” trick.

As I often say when someone compliments something I’m wearing, “Oh thanks! It’s by my favorite designer…Clearance!”

  • Shun the “stupid stuff”

Singletary visits some Reddit and other online forums to find that, for many folks, there’s some thing or things that become almost addictive. One shopper can’t stop buying new! improved! tech gear. Women often go gaga for seasonal wardrobe shopping. A few friends can’t stop procuring wine. Tip: Identify those money pits, and stay away. 

  • Don’t ID yourself as a consumer

The US economy is 70% shopping by consumerism. Heck, during a downturn, Prez George Dubya Bush implored people to go shopping! And then there’s the holidays; even Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, and July 4 have become an exercise in consumption. Yet few of these purchases will have much, um, shelf life. 

To quote the Merriam-Webster dictionary, consume means, “to do away with completely, destroy; to spend wastefully, squander.” Yep. Sounds pretty American to me. 

  • Avoid social shopping and spending

Minnesota is the inventor of indoor shopping malls. And I’m okay with that; winters are long and it’s nice to have somewhere to wander, meander, and hunt. But when you see gaggles of teens giggling their way through the mall and schlepping several bags of Lulu and whatnot, one hopes they work at Subway and are not spending Daddy’s hard-earned salary. 

Or worse: Racking up credit card debt.

  • Don’t give yourself credit

Did you know that the average credit card rate right now is ~22%? That’s usurious, and I’m serious! Even worse: The credit card debt in the US has topped $1.2 trillion—and the amount of that that is “seriously delinquent” keeps growing and (some money mavens say) could lead to a recession or crash if & when people stop paying, yet keep spending, and the banks (and stockholders) are left holding the tab. 

All to say, your Shopping Advisors at BreakAway urge you to spend more time outside…and spend your money cautiously.

And of course, enjoy your no-buy July. I hope it’s going swimmingly!

FOTOFRIDAY: It’s the Little Things, Like Loons

Posted on: Friday, July 4th, 2025
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IMG_3278.jpegThis year’s loon family, as pictured via my iPhone. Surely, they deserve a better camera! But you get the idea, and our lake community gets VERY excited when a baby loon arrives.

With any luck, life is full of simple pleasures that are free. Lake Owasso’s loons provide a favorite example, as we lakers go gaga watching the female and male arrive (separately) after their winter getaway. Then they build a next. Then we wait…and wait. And then—on a good and lucky year—a baby loon pops out…and survives! So far, it’s a great year. And we watch and listen to them every day, hoping that time will move slowly before they fly away in the fall.

FOTOFRIDAY: Where There’s Smoke, There’s Wildfire

Posted on: Friday, June 6th, 2025
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IMG_3318.jpegIf global warming is a hoax, are the wildfires also?

Those crazy Canadians are sending us their wildfire smoke again. But it can make for colorful skies. This here sundown over the boathouse is from last Sunday evening—with no edits or filters!

Is Travel on a Crash Course?

Posted on: Wednesday, June 4th, 2025
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IMG_3783.jpegFlying is becoming evermore messy…

What goes up…must come down. And so it also goes with travel trends. Of late, flying away from it all keeps getting unpleasant press. And as one who’s flown some lately, that doesn’t help the already hectic and uncomfortable experience that most of us encounter. Let us count some ways…

  • Airlines wedge solo flyers

As a frequent solo traveler, this one really chafes my ass, even when not in a tiny airline seat. Yep, the jerks running the airlines (or A.I. CEOs, who knows?) have often been charging solo travelers twice (or more) than the cost of buying 2 tickets. Why? Because they can—and even admit to intentionally bilking the business traveler. As I attempt to avoid profanity: It ain’t right!

  • Airline crashes smashing all records

Depending on your source (and date, as the numbers keeps rising), there have been, hmmm, ~100 crashes so far, and ~200 deaths. Oh sure, they keep saying that flight is safe! And one can still make that case. Nonetheless, this is already the worst year ever. And we’re not even halfway there.

  • Newark flight systems go way dark

Miraculously, there have been no catastrophes in Newark or the area. But the airport has experienced several systems crashes. That means NO COMMUNICATION between the pilots and the towers—in one of the busiest airports and most dense populations in America. Meanwhile, Trump & Co keep firing the very people responsible for our safety. As one who has used that airport dozens of times, yeah, I’m scared.

  • Flight delays are going up, up, up

Again, sources vary (especially when you define countries/regions). But one source puts the delays increase at 54% this year. They blame weather, overcrowded everything, staff shortages, and (again) the USA government funding chain-sawing allegedly wasteful jobs. My advice: Travel heavy—bring extra snacks, water, entertainment, and anti-anxiety meds.

  • Euros and Canadians are boycotting America 

Gosh, they’re really mad at us. The good news is that might mean fewer travelers! The bad news is others are hating on us. And we’ll miss the bazillions they spend visiting the Statue of Liberty, Golden Gate Bridge, and hospitality businesses.

  • Americans are often scorned when abroad

The media is all over this (except some, like FOX). But I have heard personally from MANY people that you WILL be shamed, insulted, and possibly attacked as an American visiting other lands. One friend had to make a hasty exit from a bar in Canada or risk getting beat up. So think twice about where you vacation. And maybe leave the MAGA hat at home.

We could also discuss the economy, the inflation that is making going anywhere (and doing anything) cost more, and the train wreck of options (like lack of train travel in many places) that force flying to be your only option. But really, this is enough ranting for today.

So in parting, may we all be patient and hope for clearer skies ahead. Meanwhile, enjoy your staycation!

FOTOFRIDAY: A Stunning Sundog over Lake Oswego

Posted on: Friday, May 16th, 2025
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IMG_2863.jpegHow are sundogs made? Magic!

I just spent a week in Portland for my daughter’s college graduation, staying in a favorite old inn on nearby Lake Oswego. Now, usually when I’m in that area, the weather makes sure I’m wet, cold, and missing Minnesota. Not this time! Summer was in full bloom, even in the skies. The elements in the atmosphere applauded with this celestial magic!

FOTOFRIDAY: 4Ever, 4 Prince, d. 4-21-26

Posted on: Friday, April 25th, 2025
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“Sacred is the prayer that asks for nothing,
While seeking to give thanks for every breath we take.”
~Prince, d. April 21, 2016

Prince could do it all—write, play (nearly ALL instruments), sing, dance, design, lead, act, create controversy, and more, to say nothing of his mystical mysteries and spiritual aura. I know; I got to see him dozens of times, often up close. So yeah, I remain a devoted fan, and create something naturally purple and arty on the anni of his passing every year. 4ever missing the Purple Majesty.

FOTOFRIDAY: Treasure? Trash? Or Tchotchke?

Posted on: Friday, April 18th, 2025
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A goat’s head. Crabhouse menu. Beaded sunshine. They all came home with me from far away, and make my house a beloved museum of memories.

My property is packed with mementos from travels worldwide. Big tip: Select small souvenirs (art, okay?), as they are easier to schlep in your luggage, and you can fit MORE of them in your home. My sauna is lined with small, exotic masks. Carved human forms in indigenous garb stand atop the bookshelves. Painted scenes from Grenada to Stockholm line the sun porch walls.

One problem (and another Big Tip): Sometimes, the memory blurs about what came from where—and some (especially carved masks) can look rather alike. So…Go ahead and write a short Sharpie provenance on the back. As the years go by, that’ll kick that memory in!

As a friend once said, “Moments make memories.” So do these many precious keepsakes.

FOTOFRIDAY: Play Your Escape

Posted on: Friday, April 11th, 2025
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IMG_2628.jpegI did it! After procrastinating for years, I finally pulled out an old anthem to accompany Dad’s choir on a sunny Sunday morning.

Long-term travel may be the most fulfilling way to escape. Once ensconced, your home base, real-world worries, and to-do lists fly off like pigeons. That’s only occasionally possible, though, so sanity diversions become essential. Playing music provides one way for me to elude over-thinking (fretting? …pardon the guitar pun!). And I surprised myself by volunteering to accompany my dad’s church choir in Iowa last Sunday.

Do these things…while we still can!

Please understand…I used to be good. But that takes…practice. Doesn’t most anything worthwhile? So working through my part for the anthem became a humbling reminder. Back in the day (a long, long time ago), I could sight-read what now took several days of…practice. Plus some new accessories, amp & gear shifts, and trial/error. 

But of course, the effort was worth every tedious doubt along the way. I sounded pretty dang great, which reminds me to keep playing with that stuff (and those skills) more often. Escape is essential. And sometimes, when life isn’t aligned to do so with a suitcase, a guitar case will do.

As they say in church, keep the faith.

BreakAway Takeaways: 5 Florida Reflections

Posted on: Thursday, March 27th, 2025
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For all its imperfections and controversies, Florida does have two things most states don’t: sunshine and warmth.

BreakAway is all about travel, getaways, free time, and ripping off the chains of responsibility for favorite things. Recently, those notions (and -40F windchills) inspired me to say YES when friends kindly invited me to their Floridian pads. Call it a mini-BreakAway, call it a snowbird test flight, call it research—since we’re all wondering about … what’s next? In life, in the golden years, and in sunscreen innovations.

I saw and absorbed a lot, but came home with these 5 BreakAway Takeaways…

  • Florida is crowded

With nearly 24 million souls, Florida certainly has enjoyed growth—while many states suffer from residents running away. Credit the low taxes (which seem evident in the lack of some amenities taxes actually provide). Consider America’s aging populace—most of whom just want to be, like, warm. And give thanks to the reputation Florida has as a place for fun.

Today’s Florida still offers that, but this tourist experienced little that rivaled the epic experiences I enjoyed in the Keys and other locales back in the 80s and beyond. (Hey, what happens in Key Largo stays in Key Largo.)

  • Florida sprawls

My hosts accepted my request to drive around, see things, take in sights and stimuli. I lost count of Costcos—to say nothing of the chain eateries that clog every corner—and learned that traffic can be, well, hell. Most cities in the USA can say that. But I have never, ever, seen such an endless maze of subdevelopments and condos. That swamp over there? It’ll be 500 units soon.

  • Florida is losing authenticity

You know those kicky books by Carl Hiaasen? This reader is unsure of where he presently might mine his inspiration. Remember those happy-go-lucky songs by Jimmy Buffett? He was definitely hanging in places that got blown away by hurricanes or, more likely, development.

If you try, though, you can still waste away a breezy day in a waterside watering hole. And that was probably my favorite excursion!

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  • Florida has the coolest owls

Speaking of Mr. Hiaasen, remember Hoot? The children’s book? I barely do, but do recall my kids and their clans were gaga about it. Now I see why! The namesake burrowing owls that inspired that story were seemingly everywhere—and extraordinarily protected. Unlike northern owls, though, they were NOT shy. They would happily compete in any staredown and sometimes build their burrows in the middle of crazy-busy medians. What a hoot!

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  • Florida is warm and sunny

Despite my critique, it’s easy to like a place that’s 75 and sunny in February, when, frankly, almost all of America is cool and gray or worse. This time, I mostly traversed around the Fort Myers/Naples/Cape Coral area—where about 55% of Minnesotans ‘winter.’ So while my research trip may not have locked in my retirement destination, I’ll go back again.

Maybe the Keys will beckon so I can see the latest on what crowds and sprawl have taken over that paradise lost. Maybe the warm winds and flowers in bloom will call me to escape the frozen tundra that is MN 5.5 months a year. Or, if those don’t lure me back, the owls surely will.

And this time, WHOOOOO will win the staredown? Me!

FOTOFRIDAY: Denmark: Flaunting Fierce Independence…Again

Posted on: Friday, March 14th, 2025
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P1040193.jpegToday’s FotoFriday selection dates back to summer, 2012, from a lovely seaside village. I’ve seen countless wondrous countries, yet few (if any) can compare to Denmark in kindness, cleanliness, community, and pride.

My 50% Danish heritage makes me biased, but Denmark remains a little country that can—and always attracts way more attention than their tiny population of ~6 million might suggest. Now, their autonomous territory, Greenland, is under attack by the Trump administration. Not literally, but…not yet? Denmark’s fierce independence goes back to the the 8thcentury AD. And both peoples knows how to say, “Bug off, Bully!”

Ah, kjaerlig Danmark. Bliv staerk!!!