FOTOFRIDAY: Be Afraid, Be Very Afraid…

Posted on: Friday, October 31st, 2025
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IMG_4885.jpegI recommend carving out some time with family & friends every late October to bring pumpkins to life. Who knew these orange orbs had so much personality hiding inside?

According to the National Retail Federation, Americans will spend a frightening $13.1 billion on Halloween this year. That’s an average of $114 per person. And we wonder why we feel pinched! Oh well, people need a Breakaway from their routine and persona. I mean, who doesn’t love pretending you’re someone else for an evening? Even these lowly pumpkins agree…!…

Booming Markets Belie Everyday Strugglers

Posted on: Monday, October 27th, 2025
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The Ran-Ham bowling alley decorates with hundreds of dollars that customers contribute. But around the country, most people are dealing with a severe shortage of bucks.

You hear the news every day. Talking Heads say things like, “Consumer confidence is down,” “People are pinched to pay their bills,” The job and housing markets are leaving millions behind.”

  • On the upside, US stocks

Stock market indexes continue to race skyward and break records, with the S&P 500 nearly doubling in value in the last 3 years. So if you have a lot of money in stocks, you’re making more, and maybe getting rich. Why? Well, companies are making money! They don’t seem to dance to the same drummer as the people they sell to. To put it simply, the rich are getting richer.

  • On the downside, executive pay…

A Star Tribune story today states that CEO pay is at record levels. To quote, “The median total compensation for S&P 500 companies in 2024 was $16.4 million, up 11% from the prior year.” We’re happy for them, right? But…the downside is that their average employee earns about 1/280th of that.

Fair? Probably not. And the disparity symbolizes the present political push to favor the top 1 (or 5 or 10) percent, and punish the rest. Just study the Big Beautiful Bill, with cuts in healthcare, food assistance, and overall government support and services for the vast majority of Americans…while inflation keeps rising way more than cooked government numbers admit.

  • On the downside, debt is crushing most Americans

This story runs often, but a recent CNBC online article tells us that, “About 71% of U.S. adults surveyed say monthly debt payments prevent them from building wealth or savings.” Yep, credit card debt is (again) breaking records. And, really, will someone explain to me why the banks behind those cards are allowed to charge up to ~24% while the same banks investments in interest-paying holdings pay about 1 – 4%?

Credit card debt has reached $1.21 trillio—while most people can’t save a meaningful amount, no matter how much they cut back or how many jobs they work.

  • Practice Fiscal Fitness

It’s easy to say, harder to do. But once again, here are BreakAway’s 11 Commandments of Fiscal Fitness (because 10 is not enough). Today’s favorite: Know credit—or no credit!

It’s never too late to make some meaningful monetary changes, and never too early to save whatever and however you can.

Keep the faith!

FOTOFRIDAY: Ya Gotta Love Bizarre Spirit!

Posted on: Friday, October 24th, 2025
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Boo! I mean YAY! Photos can’t really capture the magnitude of this display. I mean, for example, dozens of life-size, wooden caskets surround the entire yard—which is 99% full of realistic, ghoulish stuff. Crazy? Maybe. But I applaud all efforts to create and connect.

When in Sioux City recently to visit ailing parents, my mom told me to drive past this house. So I did. And was so stunned (and a little spooked) that I hit the brakes and stopped. In the middle of the street. Yes, I have a soft spot for twisted-ness. But really, when someone has such passion and drive for something so unique, that’s inspirational.

Note to self and all selves: Don’t be afraid…Get off your phones and make something!

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FOTOFRIDAY: I Missed the Fair (Not Really)

Posted on: Friday, September 5th, 2025
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This fine young 4H farmgirl has had enough of the fair action…Just ask her pigs!
This fine young 4H farmgirl has had enough of the fair action…Just ask her pigs!

Roundabout, I have learned (usually) to keep some controversial opinions to myself. But truth be told, the MN State Fair doesn’t tickle my thrill bone the way it does most denizens. It is because I didn’t grow up in this state? My leg is full of metal, and I can’t walk and stand all day? I shun deep-fried you-name-it by the pound? Crowds scare me unless it’s for, say, Bruce Springsteen?

A: All the above. Still, when I DO go—and if I bring the good, big camera—the event may be the most photogenic day of the year. No wonder I seem to dig into the archives for a FotoFriday shot almost annually. Which reminds me…

I better go next year. I need some fresh shots. Meantime, I hope this young lady got a good nap.

Relax Now Not Later, Please!?!?!

Posted on: Friday, August 22nd, 2025
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IMG_3670.jpegDude needs to learn to chill out someday…

Pardon us for being late to rave, er, reflect on International Relaxation Day. IRD (that’s right) happened last Friday, August 15. I hope you were so chilled out you missed it too. Wait until you see what happens here for Universal Procrastination Day!

BreakAway supports this, and preaches the gospel of chill the h*ck out, which ain’t as easy as it used to be. All the more reason to ignore the noise and grab whatever (or whoever) pleases you, which may be Heavy Metal festivals, mammoth hikes, or yoga. Regardless:

Just                              un                                plug.

How do you relax? I like watching water, sipping something, and blasting music—for starters. However you unwind, we hope you get to do it almost as much as whatever is keeping you from that higher priority. St*ff can wait. Relaxing won’t. Keep the faith.

BREAKAWAY TAKEAWAY: Relaxing happens now, not later.

FOTOFRIDAY: The Shows Remain the Same

Posted on: Friday, July 18th, 2025
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Ya can’t make this stuff up. And yet, the messages—whatever they may be—seem more relevant than ever.

I’ve written about (and then forgotten about) Slab City before—along with neighboring East Jesus, Salvation Mountain, The Salton Sea, and other freaky places near Palm Springs I visited in 2017. Yet when this picture came along today, the memories bubbled up fresh as a cold Coke. I’d say more, but the picture is worth 10,000 words, and I don’t have time to write that much today.

No-Buy July…Will It Fly?

Posted on: Thursday, July 10th, 2025
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IMG_3578.jpegThis poor little bird is both bored and scared. It just got kicked out of the nest and doesn’t yet have the wings or funds to go hang out at the mall with the other fledglings.

Back in the day, my house had 4 residents and one cat. All of them needed stuff and ergo shopped incessantly. Except the cat, although even she went through her share of toys and food and litter. Speaking of, sometimes the Amazon packaging piled up until it became a part-time job just disposing of it all.

Cue the music for No-Buy July. It’s a thing, although I suspect that, like church, participation is rare…and fading. Nonetheless, the idea stands strong—and gets some attention, including an empowering column by WashPost money writer Michelle Singletary who reminds us of some of the spending traps we can all fall into when seeking that short but mighty high that happens when scoring something seemingly special.

  • Beware of “Sale” Merch

Is anything NOT on sale anymore? At least when you leave the supermarket and enter the boutique or department store? Case in point: I recently bought a dapper seersucker jacket that I simply could NOT live without. I’m sure part of the allure (in addition to its undeniable coolness) was that it was buried on a CLEARANCE rack. At 50% off. Funny, though (or not), the price was higher than seemed appropriate.

But upon a bit of embarrassing reflection, I’ll admit and confess: Had the thing been priced the same but without the compelling discount and in its normal department, I would have likely fondled, pondered, and passed. Instead, I fell for the old “spend to save” trick.

As I often say when someone compliments something I’m wearing, “Oh thanks! It’s by my favorite designer…Clearance!”

  • Shun the “stupid stuff”

Singletary visits some Reddit and other online forums to find that, for many folks, there’s some thing or things that become almost addictive. One shopper can’t stop buying new! improved! tech gear. Women often go gaga for seasonal wardrobe shopping. A few friends can’t stop procuring wine. Tip: Identify those money pits, and stay away. 

  • Don’t ID yourself as a consumer

The US economy is 70% shopping by consumerism. Heck, during a downturn, Prez George Dubya Bush implored people to go shopping! And then there’s the holidays; even Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, and July 4 have become an exercise in consumption. Yet few of these purchases will have much, um, shelf life. 

To quote the Merriam-Webster dictionary, consume means, “to do away with completely, destroy; to spend wastefully, squander.” Yep. Sounds pretty American to me. 

  • Avoid social shopping and spending

Minnesota is the inventor of indoor shopping malls. And I’m okay with that; winters are long and it’s nice to have somewhere to wander, meander, and hunt. But when you see gaggles of teens giggling their way through the mall and schlepping several bags of Lulu and whatnot, one hopes they work at Subway and are not spending Daddy’s hard-earned salary. 

Or worse: Racking up credit card debt.

  • Don’t give yourself credit

Did you know that the average credit card rate right now is ~22%? That’s usurious, and I’m serious! Even worse: The credit card debt in the US has topped $1.2 trillion—and the amount of that that is “seriously delinquent” keeps growing and (some money mavens say) could lead to a recession or crash if & when people stop paying, yet keep spending, and the banks (and stockholders) are left holding the tab. 

All to say, your Shopping Advisors at BreakAway urge you to spend more time outside…and spend your money cautiously.

And of course, enjoy your no-buy July. I hope it’s going swimmingly!

FOTOFRIDAY: It’s the Little Things, Like Loons

Posted on: Friday, July 4th, 2025
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IMG_3278.jpegThis year’s loon family, as pictured via my iPhone. Surely, they deserve a better camera! But you get the idea, and our lake community gets VERY excited when a baby loon arrives.

With any luck, life is full of simple pleasures that are free. Lake Owasso’s loons provide a favorite example, as we lakers go gaga watching the female and male arrive (separately) after their winter getaway. Then they build a next. Then we wait…and wait. And then—on a good and lucky year—a baby loon pops out…and survives! So far, it’s a great year. And we watch and listen to them every day, hoping that time will move slowly before they fly away in the fall.

FOTOFRIDAY: Where There’s Smoke, There’s Wildfire

Posted on: Friday, June 6th, 2025
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IMG_3318.jpegIf global warming is a hoax, are the wildfires also?

Those crazy Canadians are sending us their wildfire smoke again. But it can make for colorful skies. This here sundown over the boathouse is from last Sunday evening—with no edits or filters!

Is Travel on a Crash Course?

Posted on: Wednesday, June 4th, 2025
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IMG_3783.jpegFlying is becoming evermore messy…

What goes up…must come down. And so it also goes with travel trends. Of late, flying away from it all keeps getting unpleasant press. And as one who’s flown some lately, that doesn’t help the already hectic and uncomfortable experience that most of us encounter. Let us count some ways…

  • Airlines wedge solo flyers

As a frequent solo traveler, this one really chafes my ass, even when not in a tiny airline seat. Yep, the jerks running the airlines (or A.I. CEOs, who knows?) have often been charging solo travelers twice (or more) than the cost of buying 2 tickets. Why? Because they can—and even admit to intentionally bilking the business traveler. As I attempt to avoid profanity: It ain’t right!

  • Airline crashes smashing all records

Depending on your source (and date, as the numbers keeps rising), there have been, hmmm, ~100 crashes so far, and ~200 deaths. Oh sure, they keep saying that flight is safe! And one can still make that case. Nonetheless, this is already the worst year ever. And we’re not even halfway there.

  • Newark flight systems go way dark

Miraculously, there have been no catastrophes in Newark or the area. But the airport has experienced several systems crashes. That means NO COMMUNICATION between the pilots and the towers—in one of the busiest airports and most dense populations in America. Meanwhile, Trump & Co keep firing the very people responsible for our safety. As one who has used that airport dozens of times, yeah, I’m scared.

  • Flight delays are going up, up, up

Again, sources vary (especially when you define countries/regions). But one source puts the delays increase at 54% this year. They blame weather, overcrowded everything, staff shortages, and (again) the USA government funding chain-sawing allegedly wasteful jobs. My advice: Travel heavy—bring extra snacks, water, entertainment, and anti-anxiety meds.

  • Euros and Canadians are boycotting America 

Gosh, they’re really mad at us. The good news is that might mean fewer travelers! The bad news is others are hating on us. And we’ll miss the bazillions they spend visiting the Statue of Liberty, Golden Gate Bridge, and hospitality businesses.

  • Americans are often scorned when abroad

The media is all over this (except some, like FOX). But I have heard personally from MANY people that you WILL be shamed, insulted, and possibly attacked as an American visiting other lands. One friend had to make a hasty exit from a bar in Canada or risk getting beat up. So think twice about where you vacation. And maybe leave the MAGA hat at home.

We could also discuss the economy, the inflation that is making going anywhere (and doing anything) cost more, and the train wreck of options (like lack of train travel in many places) that force flying to be your only option. But really, this is enough ranting for today.

So in parting, may we all be patient and hope for clearer skies ahead. Meanwhile, enjoy your staycation!